What Is Bonjour?
Apple computers running newer versions of Mac OS X support Bonjour as a capability embedded in various network applications such as the Web browser (Safari), iTunes, and Back To My Mac. Additionally, Apple provides a Bonjour service for Microsoft Windows PCs as a free software download on apple.com. The technology is based on Internet Protocol (IP), allowing it to work with both wired and wireless networks.
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I have Windows XP-2 Home Edition. Do I really need Bonjour? Why? The technical jargon has left my questions unanswered.
Your right…he never really did answer your question, “do I really need Bonjour”. Instead he gave you a bunch of technical useless jargon